December 16, 2009

Kiddos, Colic and Christmas



I want to thank everyone for their support, encouragement and suggestions. We're implementing everything :-)
Simone seems to be feeling a little better today. There hasn't been any crying and we're really hoping that we might make it through the night without any.

I haven't had any dairy or dairy derivatives, any gluten, onions, peanuts, cabbage family veggies, peppers, high pectin fruits, spices or soy in over a week. We've furthered the elimination now so that I am pretty much eating only fish, chicken, squash, rice, pear, celery, carrots and potatoes. These things are the recommended "safe foods" for colic elimination diets. Yum ;-}

Tonight we'll be raising the head of the bed so that we will be sleeping at about a 40 degree angle. Jeff and I have been taking turns with the night-time holding. Jeff sleeps propped up with Simone tummy down on his chest. I prefer to sleep with her side lying in my arms. It's tough, but we're glad when she sleeps and we don't have to be on the sofa or rocking chair for it to happen. I drink a tea of fennel seed, catnip and peppermint every day to help with her digestion, we make sure she's burped thoroughly and is kept in a semi-upright position for at least 30 minutes after nursing. We carry and hold her so that there's no pressure on her belly, and we've ordered infant probiotics and Gripe Water. I'm sure there's more, bit it's escaping me now.

The rest of our lives feel a bit chaotic this week. All energy has been going to meeting basic needs while managing Jeff's job, and caring for Simone. It feels like all we can do to keep the laundry moving... folding be damned. There is at least one load of diapers and spit-up soaked clothes every day. We can't seem to get kindling chopped until we run out and the floors haven't been mopped in two weeks. Yeah, we look like a household in the newly postpartum period and it feels like it. I went for a walk to the mailbox today after realizing that I hadn't been outside of the house in 8 days.

I keep reminding myself that we've been through this adjustment period before, that we've survived colic before, that everything changes quickly and by spring we will be in great shape again. Sometimes I remind myself several times an hour ;-)

All in all, I'm thankful that we are a well balanced family that already knows how to do all of this. I'm grateful that everyone's needs are being met and that everyone is still in good spirits.
Colic can really wreak havoc on a family, but I think we're managing well.

Now, if only eggnog were part of an elimination diet :*( I LOVE the stuff... that and the pies we froze a couple of months ago...

Ah, well...
I will take my enjoyment from the snow that comes during the -2 degree nights and then melts off in the 56 degree afternoons... the Swingin Christmas channel on Pandora, and the general happiness of my kiddos who are really looking forward to Christmas.

Keep commenting. I really love to hear from you. I enjoy hearing about who you are and what you think.
xoxo

15 comments:

Michelle Paterson said...

I just found your wonderful blog today and have spent the last few hours reading your 2009 posts and feeds. I am so impressed with your honesty, vulnerability and courage. You are an amazing woman and I look forward to connecting with you through your blog. You inspire me to start a blog. Your family is precious and I wish you much happiness. Enjoy!

Lasagna said...

Glad she's doing better! And I'm heading over to check out that pandora station now - thanks.

Michelle Paterson said...

for music check out sharkgroove too

Cari said...

I'm glad you're all doing a little better. The pics of your kids are adorable! I hope you and your family have a beautiful and blessed Christmas.

Pamela said...

Glad to hear things are better with the little one! :)

Just an fyi to your readers, Pandora is now only allowed in the US. I am in Canada and it is blocked but Groove shark is allowed. :)

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Babs said...

Oh Aim...the kids are gorgeous :)
You're right you know, that you know how to do this...trust your inner vibrations and kick the voices of doubt out into the cold where they can melt away with the snow.
Make no apologies for the condition of the floor...you're busy having a LIFE which is much better :)

Love to all!

VeronikaRae said...

Hi Aimee,

This is Veronika from Brewed Awakenings in Appleton, WI. I just wanted to drop you a note and let you know how much I've been enjoying your blog.

You kids are so beautiful and have grown SO much since we met you!

Our prayers our with you as you try to ease your new babe. Thanks for sharing your life with us.

Jenna Gayle said...

I'm glad to hear things are looking up for you! I'll still keep sending you those vibes... forever if you need 'em! :)

I forgot about the probiotics (silly me) and am glad to hear you're trying the Gripe Water!!

Keep smiling... every day is better than the last!!

getting stuff done said...

you are doing extremely well. One baby without colic can cause just as much mayhem!!! I hope you have a right cosy Christmas. xx Mo in Brighton UK where it did its first sleety wet unsettling snow of the season today.

aok said...

Hey- congrats on the newest beauty! I just wanted to pipe in to be careful with the peppermint if you breastfeeding! It will reduce your milk supply- some say by as much as 25%! I am not a lactation consultant but I have done tons of research to support my breastfeeding on herbs and that is one that most agree you need to stay away from while bf.

I, too, have a 6 1/2 month old with acid reflux...it is really tough. He still only sleeps in small blocks. AND he has just now stopped the regular, daily screaming fits. I am impressed with your elimination diet! Hang in there. Hope things continue to improve!

Lynn said...

My daughter has that same dress from the GAP - super cute!

Monica said...

Hey, Aimee, glad to hear of some improvement!

I will echo the other poster's comment about the mint tea... it *can* decrease milk production. I was the queen of low milk supply research for a while...! You may be making gobs of milk, but it's just something to consider. Like you need something else, right??!

You're doing great - keep up the awesome lovin'! These pics are BEAUTIFUL, BTW! The kids look totally in love with their new baby sis!

Trisha said...

so glad things are looking up. Perspective is really the only measure of which we can control a day. Your family looks and sounds happy, yea! The kids are beautiful.

mamiesgoo said...

a clean house is a sign of a life unlived;)